K8s_node_name not found?

This feature is not released yet. You were looking at the documentation for the master branch which is the version currently under development.

You can find the documentation for the current version by replacing master with current or the specific version of ECK you are running e.g.

https://www.elastic.co/guide/en/cloud-on-k8s/1.2/k8s-advanced-node-scheduling.html